When somebody told me that he has failed in his exams, my question is, “Is it a law that you will pass every time?”
When someone told me that my boyfriend broke up with me, my question is, “Is it a rule that you will have successful relationship everywhere?”
When somebody asked me why am I in depression, my question is, “Is it compulsory to have confidence at all the time?”
When someone cried to me about his huge business loss due to his wrong decision, my question is, “Is it possible that you take all right decisions?”
The fact is our expectation that life has to be perfect/permanent is the biggest reason of our unhappiness. One has to understand the law of impermanence of nature.
After each sunny day, there has to be a dark night, after each birth there has to be certain deaths, for full moon to come again it has to pass through no moon. In this imperfection of nature, there is perfection.
So stop taking your failures and bad part of your life soooo personally or intensely, even God does not like to give you pain but its the cycle through which you have to pass. Prepare yourself for one more fight after each fall because even failures cannot be permanent…! “If you cannot find the brighter side of life then polish the darker side”. Adjustment of attitude is the only instrument to live a life.
Silently sitting I realized… In life, we all have – An unspeakable secret, An irreversible regret, An un-kept promise, An unheard request, An irreplaceable loss, An unreachable dream, An unforgettable person we love. Still, life is about being happy anyhow… Because, everything in life can be summed up in just three words… “Life Goes On!”